People spend over 700 billion minutes per month on Facebook

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Client: “How about we pay you in free alcohol?”

Me: “Only if I can make your poster out of macaroni noodles.”

photo by Veronica Belmont

Veronica Belmont and Ryan Block have been using their cat Mr. Littlejeans as a DIY iPad stand.

I’ve always remembered that story, because it strikes me that applies to nearly every case where an outsider tries to make sense of an insider’s perspective. We can see all the things that someone, in a different profession than us, does. What we cannot know is the relative difficulty of those tasks. I know a reverse slam is harder than a simple dunk. But how much harder? And how much harder again would a slam be if you had a defender drapped all over you? (I also know very little about sports as well)

I was really bored one day and was actually watching golf. I remember watching Phil Mickelson at the PGA (or was it the U.S Open?). He was in the rough, just off the green, and chipped within a few feet of the hole. Ho-hum, I thought. He bogeyed the hole. Mickelson had taken a FULL swing at a ball in an impossible lie and sent it 20 feet, to within an easy putt of the hole. I’ve never played golf, so I had no idea how hard that was, or why that was anything special. The announcer, though, had a completely different perspective.

I think that misunderstanding over degree of difficulty issues is one of the major reasons for conflict between insiders and outsiders. We bridle at the school teacher who asks for a raise, because we don’t realize–and we can never realize unless we’ve been a teacher ourselves–how hard being a school teacher is. Mickelson shoots 75 and says, afterward, he thought he had a great round and we scoff, but only because we don’t know golf the way he does and we don’t understand how insanely difficult that chip shot was.

Goodbye Amanda

• Paul Graham on overcoming distractions. By creating an Internet-Only computer.
  Quote:

  I now leave wifi turned off on my main computer except when I need to transfer a file or edit a web page, and I have a separate laptop on the other side of the room that I use to check mail or browse the web. (Irony of ironies, it’s the computer Steve Huffman wrote Reddit on. When Steve and Alexis auctioned off their old laptops for charity, I bought them for the Y Combinator museum.)My rule is that I can spend as much time online as I want, as long as I do it on that computer. And this turns out to be enough.

• NY Times on overcoming clutter. By giving everything away.
  Quote:

  Chasing a utopian vision of a self-sustaining life on the land as partisans of a movement some call voluntary simplicity, they are donating virtually all their possessions to charity and hitting the road at the end of May.“It’s amazing the amount of things a family can acquire,” said Mrs. Harris, 28, attributing their good life to “the ridiculous amount of money” her husband earned as a computer network engineer in this early Wi-Fi mecca.

  The Harrises now hope to end up as organic homesteaders in Vermont.

I can’t quite see myself going as far as homesteading… but I always get that uncanny feeling when I read stories like these that it really IS that simple to make a change.

“What we know about incentives is that people work a lot harder to avoid losing $10 than they will work to gain $10,” explains Ayres. “So something that’s framed as a loss is really effective at changing behavior.”

Related to that question I was asked sometime back: I wonder if a gym membership might be even more motivating if you received a daily email updating you on the wasted dollars you’d spent by not working out in the last ‘X’ days.

NPR: Loss Aversion — Money Loss, That Is